Buterfly needs help!!

[Ahad]

You seem to have con confused and mudied the water when you speak about religion, westernisation, love and happiness.

If you are talking global economics then there are lots of sharks out there for our unsecure Bangladeshi sisiters who need guidance and who regularly pray to Allah (swt) to ensure that they don't fall into the trap of this free valueless liberal society when they go to colleges, universities and workplace.

Using your philosophy Buterfly it seems that you would prefer young people to experiment and work out the best partner rather than the proven method which is build trust, love and happiness through offering love commitment and happiness. What you also need to understand is that you next generation(kids) might find themselves distancing from religion( may be that is what you want), they will be in an identity crisis and they may struggle to understand their roots as you have made it very muddy.

I am sorry it may feel like a personal attack, but it is only advice for others using this site who may also be confused.

Your views are welcome.

[butterfly_s]

bull****

[butterfly_s]

when it comes to love ,religion whatever i try to use my own judgment as god also said that.
i don wanna be muslim just because my fourteen generation are muslim. i am muslim cause i think this is the only religion which i can follow. though i don seem to agree with some islamic rules or whatever i don wanna blame islam or quran for that.i think those black spots are made up by some guys like you. i mean treanslated in wrong way for their own benefit.


try this game : sit ten frinds together.tell something to the next to you.and tell her to tell exact phrase that u have said to her.if it continues when it reaches to the last person it been totally changed.i have done it practically.

same happened to islam or quoran. So....

[Locky]

quoran, was that supposed to be 'Quran'. If it is then don't write what u don't know, lady.

[Ahad]

Buterfly and others like her need to realise that Islam is a way of like and you cannot choose the bits you like and throw away the bits you don't like. It is a whole package and if followed accordingly it will keep humans all over the world in the right path wheter it is economics, politics, society, marriage, business, etc.

What you also need to understand Buterfly is that unlike the Bible the Holy Quran has been around for over fourteen centuries and not a single word or phrase has been changed. If you are looking for interpretaion, and don't accept your friends, colleagues or me then go and read the translation of the Quran and speak to an Alim (someone who is knowledgeable about the Quran.

Islam is not like a meal wher you eat the chips, half of the firsh and throw away the carrots. You eat the whole thing or you don't eat full stop. That is just a simple anology so you can understand.

[butterfly_s]

yep. it should be quran. promise i woke up in the morning and logged onto computer. and was very confused about the spelling. thanks for the correction.


hey why bother so much about religion?

i will leave it on god to judge what do ya think?

about the translation part. i have always read the bangla or english version of quran.
i can quote from there if u wan. it really sounds bogusboo.
don know for sure if the religion is like that or it was translated wrong.

[Ahad]

ADVICE FOR BUTERFLY

Stick to tradition, culture, and Society in your discussions and keep Islam and Religion out of it as you are obviously not qualified to make that kind of judgement.

So about providing you free advice. I am sure it will do you wonders.