Honest they sleep around

[Wicked786]

Hi there all,
This is sort of a disturbing but it is really happening! All ladies say men play the field and i have to agree majority of them do.
But married bangladeshi women do it to. i personally know of three within the birmingham area. I find it really disgusting. When i was visiting my friend in wales, he had a woman come over with her child from birmingham. Knowingly getting up to adultry while her husband is trying to get entry into this country. ( this child was around 5-6 years old)

Anouther one is someone close to me as she happens to be a good friends sister in law. my friend doesn't know should i tell him as i seen her with my own eyes making out with a guy from the same community in a back of a car. I was amazed to see her and now when i see her she makes advances towards me, she even confronted me not to tell my friend or his brother. She was willing to give me something in return which i told her i was not interested.

She is still playing the field with other blokes, her husband has recently done hajj.

Tell me what would you do in my situation?

I see my mate every weekend when i work with him

Wicked

[butterfly_s]

pretty disgusting!!!!!!!!!!!!!isnt it?

[Ahad]

Just hope that your wife doesn;t do it when you get married!!!

Its the "process of Westernisation" that I personally blame, too much tv/video, too much explicit information in the papers/magazines.

Be careful in what you say or do as it can mend or break a marriage.

It happens both ways, and it is disgusting and it is morally wrong.

AA

[Sabina]

Funny, I know a similar situation.

The man married someone in Bangladesh, he's not related to the family. She's educated to a great degree, attractive and talented in many ways. When she came to this country, the man's side of the family made regular contacts with the wife's side of the family. The wife's side of the family were excited to have their first proper brother-in-law. Their brother-in-law well-educated also, running his own business became fond of his wife's cousin who's the same age as the wife. However, his fondness became serious. She, perceivinng him as a brother-in-law only messed around. Until a stage came when he confessed his feelings for her. That's when she got upset and tried to put things in perspective.

I think the good thing here was the girl whom he wanted a relationship/affair with actually put things in perspective for him before things did get really serious. She never told her cousin(his wife). However, she hasn't lost total contact with him. She actually advises him on how to go about the relationship, by teaching her things. It's a shame really.

Wicked - I think in your case, the man shouldn't had led her on. She obviously must be in a vulnerable state to actually go to such extremes.

Think about it mate.

Take care.

[Wicked786]

No ones really helped me on the issue should i tell him or not. I'm back at work with him on Friday and it's really bugging when i see him. But what will happen if i do i mean his brother has two kids. The family reputation, turmoil, heart break and so on. I can imagine him being shattered and doing something really wild. My friend himself is married with kids. The only regular time his bhabi gets out is to pick the kids from mosque. Obviosly she pops out early for her rendevouz.

Help me out guys

Wicked

[Wicked786]

Sabina, I think the lady is a lot responsible for her own actions, it's not the one man she is seeing on the side. I with my own eyes seen her perform something explicit in the park when i was there in the night having a smoke. She is bad all over, regardless of being lead on it's not a relationship she's after it's just lust for her satisfaction.

Wicked

[butterfly_s]

hi wicked786

i thought u said she goes out only when she has to pick kids up? then how can u see her in the night?

and in the park in the night!!!!!!!!!

and i don think u should tell it to ur friend yet. you should talk to her first.

then know what she has to say? if she says its not your busieness then you should leave her alone.

coz i think she knows what she is doing as she has two kids.


also stop watching bad stuff! dont ya know that"
bura mat kaho, bura mat suno, bura mat dekho"

"dont say bad stuff, dont listen bad stuff, don see bas stuff"-wise words"

i know you are worried for your friend but keep it mind she should be more worried for her kids and for her own life.

so if she doent care! also if she keeps continuing her huband will eventually find out.

then u will be safe as they will solve their own prob.

as you have seen it lotta people seen it too if i i m not wrong(it could be you who she was with)!!

okok i m just kidding! please no offence!

best wishes
Butterfly