If someone wants to get married how would they approach parents

[Aqaiyum]

Hi

This question goes to everyone. How can someone tell their parents that they wanna get married besides throwing hints, i just wondered as asking to get you married, is so called Shorom, really????

anyway
catch you guyz later
bye

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Abs

[shafiQue]

Well, it would definately not be through
the father. It would have to be through
someone you are open with and is within the
family, like a sister in law or a brother in
law whom will then go on to tell the neccessary people in the family. This usually works.

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[Rima]

Well.......Shorom doesn't exist in my mentality...whats the use...I mean its natural huh? Anyway...I'm freeeee & open with my parents so...I'm sorted!
Good luck to the rest of you!!!!!1

[Farhana_faz]

so Aqaiyum, u wanna get married eh?? bored of living with parents already or jus gathering info for the future??
well I think its harder 4 boys to tell their parents ... I dunno y though. U could tell ur sis/bro (who u r closer 2) I guess. Well I kno my bro would tell me, if he was in that position.....

as 4 me..... i would jus march up 2 my Mommy and say "i wanna get married NOW" hee hee !! though i couldnt tell my dad coz he'd probably think I'm joking as he still thinks I'm his lil baby. lol..

anyways take care!!

[Aqaiyum]

Cheers,

i know its natural to get married, just wanted to know other peoples opinion.
And Faz no im not considering marriage yet.

ok bye

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Abs

[Farhana_faz]

okey dokey abs

[aff]

I think once you reach a certain age, depending on how traditional your parents are
it should'nt be to 'Shorom'but a more natural process.

My parents still want my eldest brother to get married, his 25 and is more concerned about his carear then getting married.
But theres a mutal understanding between them, and when the time is right there will be willingness from both sides....I hope!

takecare.
aff

[This message has been edited by aff (edited 31 March 2000).]