DESI GIRLS WITH NON DESI BOYS

[cooool_amir]

HI ALL, Most of u dont know me, because I am new here. I from south east and I am 19, currently studying.
Anyway, when I goto london, I see bangali girls going out with white and black boys, I am not talking about race here, its that they r not muslim and they dont have same culture. I know 3 girls who got married with white, but they divoiced in 2 months, becuase white boys parents dont accept girls as thier son wife. They thing girls r foreigners. I think bangali girls should stick with bangalis boys, they will get on better, same goes for boys. I probably made lots of mistakes, I if did sorry.
WHAT U BOYS AND GIRLS THINK,. CYA

[Tareq_Ali]

I think you are wasting your time!

Everyone has his/her own right of choice. So, what you or we can do.

So, go to bed and have a sweet dream. Think something coooooo oooo ooo oo lllll........

[aff]

How u doing amir, good I hope?

well I have never come across the above, however it is more common to see the opposite....is it not???

That is, asian boys going out with non-muslim girls. Anyway whatever the case still the same thing...a muslim with a non-muslim!

takecare.
aff

[Farhana_faz]

salaam

a muslim is not suppose to go out with a muslim b4 marriage either!! So the whole concept is wrong and its not a matter of who they are going out with!!

Was salaam

[Ahad]

Whatever you guys think, this inter marriage and assimilation is happening all over the country. I don't agree with it myself, not only could the relationship go on the rocks, but the parents of the Bangladeshi or Muslim person goes through a lot of STRESS and DISCOMFORT. Some suffer sever nervous break down, strokes, heart attacks, depresseion, etc.

I know a very nice man, used to pray 5 times a day went to hajj several times, highly respected in the community, he died having a heart attack when his only daughter went out with a black guy and chose to marry him.

His sons and his wife are very nice people, but they now feel ashamed to mingle in with other people in the community.

A lot of families are going through this, it is upto us as individuals to look after our younger brothers and sisters and teach them the difference between right and wrong, make them understand our strong tradition and how it can become very fragile when something like this happen.

Too many families have suffered already.

Enough is enough, we are still a very new community in the UK, our first generation settlers are finding it difficult to accept this culture, and we shouldn't let them suffer as a result of our short term reaction to the hormones.

Any feed back welcome.

AHAD

Buterfly, I am just hoping that you are not another statistic.

[cooool_amir]

HI, thanks 2 everyone 4 reply, especially AHAD, very well said.
Tareq brother, r u still angry with me.

[Tareq_Ali]

Not at all.

I was just kidding. If I heart you then sorry.

Anyway, you raised a nice topic to discuss. As muslim and conservative, we should keep our values up right.

Thanks to Ahad for his nice views.