Guys!I need some advise.

[vivian]

Hi.guys.I am in love with a bangli guy. But I am not from bangli and am not a muslim. we meet in a EU country. We were friends then we get closer and closer. Now we are in a relationship and live together. He is from syhlet. we have been together nearly 5 months now. I am serious about the relationship. But he doesn't want his family know me. he said in bangli there is no girlfriend only wife. I am confused now. I do not know if we have a future or not. I do not want to waste my time. I ask him if he will leave me and go back to bangli and get married with someother girl or if u think we can not have future, please let me know. he said he like me and he will not leave me. but I do not know what is the culture like in bangli. What should I do. He treat me v good. He take v good care of me. He said he is from a good family and he can not married to someone lower class in bngli. If he will get married in bangli, he will get a good family and prety girl. I really do not know the culture and do not know what to do. Could any body give me some advise??

[admin]

Hi Vivian, Welcome to the forums. It seems you have many obstacles to overcome. I hope someone is able to help you with your question.

[annie]

sorry 2 b horrible hun. it doesnt seem like u have future wid him. guys usually jus listen 2 wat the parents have 2 say. the parents wud want sum1 bengali

[PATRICK2010]

Originally Posted by vivian

Hi.guys.I am in love with a bangli guy. But I am not from bangli and am not a muslim. we meet in a EU country. We were friends then we get closer and closer. Now we are in a relationship and live together. He is from syhlet. we have been together nearly 5 months now. I am serious about the relationship. But he doesn't want his family know me. he said in bangli there is no girlfriend only wife. I am confused now. I do not know if we have a future or not. I do not want to waste my time. I ask him if he will leave me and go back to bangli and get married with someother girl or if u think we can not have future, please let me know. he said he like me and he will not leave me. but I do not know what is the culture like in bangli. What should I do. He treat me v good. He take v good care of me. He said he is from a good family and he can not married to someone lower class in bngli. If he will get married in bangli, he will get a good family and prety girl. I really do not know the culture and do not know what to do. Could any body give me some advise??

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dos,nt seem to be any future there for you vivian , to much tradition there for him to overcome , i feel that he will make the break when hes ready ....sorry !

[vivian]

hi.guys.Good news. I am engaged recently with my lad. He has proposed to me with his Quran. He promise to to get me a 1 carat diamond ring soon. We are thinking to go to Antwerp in Belgium to pick my ring and also have a romantic holiday there. It does work out. So for anybody who is dating muslim, have soem faith and believe. If he really love you, he will make it work. I am so happy now, because I am in love.............