playing house

[burns]

do you have a friend with whom you joke about marrying someday, perhaps or you disscuss what kinda house your gona buy or how many kids your gona have, or where your gona put your mother in law.

its like a running joke between the two of you.

so you'll say something like "hey when we're married you're gona have to do that all the time"

you know what i mean, she or he is juss a mate but you sometimes pretend your gona end up a couple. i can see why a girl might find it amusing, but for a guy is it jus a bit gay?

[Kiya]

don't ever do dat..dats like da worst thing pplz could do.u can hae lot of misunderstanding

i did dat once, long ago, with a online buddy.i was stupid it was da first time i learned dat u can chat with strangers not just friends from scul.. n omgosh wat a hell dat was

first we start joking,, n i was fine with it,,cuz i was like its jokee
but dan it kinda continued we did dat all the time n after couple of months talking ( i never told him my real name or pic or number) but still i was like 15 dan n he was 18 or so ..so we were both stupid..
but dan after a while i realized dat we don't laught after we say stuff like dat,, n i start thinking if i was giving him wrong impression n heard about other pplz hooked up from net..

so i kinda start questioning n asked him, if he though of it as anythign more dan joke.. n oppss.. he did..
so i reminded him how it was a joke when we began n it kinda went out of line..i felt awful after dat, cuz it was kidna my fault..

n ermm ever since dan i never ever joked around with anyone abt those stuff

so dont do dat
but its not gay for guy if he is trying 2 make his move on a girl.. but is pretending 2 be friends. 2 get closer

[burns]

your examples kinda freaky cos you were only 15 at the time. that 18yr old must have been a bit wierd.

i can see it leading to misunderstanding cos boy girl relationships always end up with one side falling for the other.

i wouldnt say it was a bad thing tho. i mean its jus mates messing around innnit. but im suspicios of the guys in this situation. i find it hard to believe that a guy can indulge in such banter without any hidden feelings or unless he is a bit homo.

[Kiya]

its not freakky.. n we never really had da whoel marriage convo.. dats wayyy to far.. but simliar line,, like when we meet n stuff :S but nothign crazy.. but still it was weird.. now dat i look back..

but why is it homo for guy..dont desi guyz always do dat.. imagin how things will be after marriage n stuff, since thy can't be with a girl before hand :S

i dont get u

[burns]

it juss seems the hight of femininity to be talking of such thigs you know. speicaly with a mate who you have no intention of getting it on with.

im sure other the girls friends would commnet on how 'gay' the guy is.

[Angelica]

Originally posted by burns
so you'll say something like "hey when we're married you're gona have to do that all the time"

I think you should start worriyng when a 'friend' starts saying stuff like that to you

Because if I was in the girls shoes, Id think "hes definately sub consciously thinking of marrying me...weirdo"

If you didnt have them thoughts deep down, wouldnt you say "hey when YOU'RE married...." instead?

Burns....I think you've got something to ask somebody havent you young man?!!

[burns]

Originally posted by Angelica
Because if I was in the girls shoes, Id think "hes definately sub consciously thinking of marrying me...weirdo"

If you didnt have them thoughts deep down, wouldnt you say "hey when YOU'RE married...." instead?

Burns....I think you've got something to ask somebody havent you young man?!!

no, its not gona be some random geeza thats gona make that comment - it would be a friend and sum1 that you have prolly shared that kinda joke with already.

but yeh, that kinda person you would play 'house' with is naturally gona be the kinda person that you might wanna end up with innit?