another hijab question

[Kiya]

i do believe guys will use aslamualkum 2 hit on hijabis, cuz thy know this way she will answer..n in some case burns is rite many girl don't see dat as a pick up line..but thy should, lot do see it n wont talk 2 a guy pass w/salam

i am not a hijabi so can't speak for them..how thy see it..
but i know pplz who have hooked up after meeting in MSA (muslim student association) n many of my friends who r good girls n wear hijabi (am not saying noting bad abt them) but they know tons more guyz on campus dan i do throug MSA n other muslim organization n thy do refer 2 thos boys as brothers.. but i can imaging if any of them wanted 2 find a girl it wont be very hard, since this girls already r in very close contact with them without knowing....

but dats prolly cuz i stay away from all sort of organization , i got enff on my own 2 do, so i am not in touch with anyone outside of class.. so it might seem a lot 2me where as its normal

[Angelica]

Originally posted by samya
hijab hasn't lost anything...
the gurls have!

if they are wearing it for fashion sake or other petty reasons then thats rong...they shudn't be wearing one in the first place...

I absolutely agree with you there

For some girls it has become a weapon almost, that they can use to cover up the shifty stuff they get up to

I wear a hijab...when I say this, I mean a headscarve around the head...not the full on gown thing...I work, go to uni, do everything with that and have found that guys and girls generally approach you with more respect, simply coz your head is covered. My sisters, younger and older, dont wear them...and I can really feel the difference in how ppl respond to us when we're out shopping for example

Nehoo...when my muslim guy mates and I meet, we dont salaam eachother, infact none of my mates in my circle do... But I can see how this salaaming business may be percived as flirting....

But lets not forget, its not just the hijabi girls who may be doing wrong under their hijabs, there are enough weirdy beardies around who grow a beard to look respectable :roll:

*have i gone off topic again, and burns, soz, lol, but have forgotten what your original qn was ops:*