im confused...does he like me?

[srx]

hello....
im at uni and i have seen this security guard who is at the door of the IT centre, he keeps looking at me, the first week i was really not in the mood for games asu might gather by reading my previous posts...so i didnt really give him notice or any sort of indication that i also might like him.
but...the follwoing week he still continued looking at me...and i had a change of interest....i started eyeing him aswell. i cant beleive this is happening to me...i think im started to move on now...(bless!!)...but it worries me cz if i start to like him alot then he might hurt me etc...anyways thats another story.
first of all...does he like me. i'll give u reasons to why i think he does and doesnt.

does:

looks at me...not normal look, like i would 'look' at someone...but a really intriguing look

smile

letting me pass without ID...in IT centre whihc is a good deed ofcourse!

turns his head round and looks back.

overhears my conversations with people and laughs


does not:

i think he doesnt (as well as does...im confused) because he lets me pass with out showing ID becuase i fake to search for it in my bag so i can stand in front of him. but he lets me thru...if he liked me shouldnt he not let me thru and watch me search for it...which means he gets to see me for longer...??...

its been 2 weeks still hasnt had the courage to come talk to me...is he shy type?? i doubt it...his a man not a 17yr old boy...he has had enough experence im sure...so why not approach me yet?

thats all.

but am i jumping to toooo much conclusions as to he likes me...his prob got a wife sitting at home i dont knw but he keeps looking and doing nothing whihc is making me wonder if he even likes me or not??

answer please people.

thank you. xxx

[MaKe_iT_LEgAL]

errrmmm best way to find out... u talk to him may be?


lemme guess, no cos u dont want himto fink that ur to upfront.

theres plan A gone down the drain.

[srx]

NO WAY!
that will ruin my self esteem and my image....gosh i couldnt even let that one cross my mind!
think of another plan pllllllllllllllleeeeszzz

yeh and also i dont want him to think i like him 'first' i want him to say it not me.


hi is it the number 38 (ME) wife guy???!!!

lol

[annie]

yeah like MIL sed jus generally say hello...and find out a fu details...

but gal...i fink u shud take it easy as uv jus cum out of a relationship and u mite b on d rebound...(dats usually d case). b creful! u dnt wana get hurt....

[MaKe_iT_LEgAL]

Originally posted by srx
NO WAY!
that will ruin my self esteem and my image....gosh i couldnt even let that one cross my mind!
think of another plan pllllllllllllllleeeeszzz

yeh and also i dont want him to think i like him 'first' i want him to say it not me.


hi is it the number 38 (ME) wife guy???!!!

lol

yup! hello number 38!

u dont need to go up to him n say ''whagwaan wot u sayin, u up for some...''

just, say hello the next time u walk passed n he smiles, its just being polite.. may be it'll urge him to make more conversation...

just break the ice. u mite not like him at all after uve heard him spk..

and i dont see how it'll ruin your self esteem, if anything it'll make u more confident. wot u got to lose? if anything u mite just gain a friend/ acquaintance.

[annie]

or if u dont wana talk....jus smile at him, flick ur hair, jus try 2 luk gud...dat way hel noe ur kinda flirtin wid him and ur interested.

by d way how old is dis guy? coz if u fink hes married alow it! plenty of guys at uni

[srx]

lol u guys making me laugh!

hi legal!

annie i aint sure if he is marreid no reason to be suspicious at all either...i was just making a comment whether i was over reacting about the whole likeing thing!

anyways u wont beleive wat just happend...im so so stupaaaddd.

i went in library after the IT centre and was looking at books and i went from one shelf to another and out of no where he walks pass me and i blank him..aaarrrggghhh.....why did i did that??!!! then he didnt bother looking bak like he used to. im a fool. i messed it up now!
i just blanked him unconciuosly thinking if i look at him he will know i like him and talk to his mates etc...so they will laugh at me and think am a fool...i hate to make myself look like that. esteem bit comes into this also MR. 38!!

i think he is about 27...i dont mind that. and annie yes there are plenty of guys around uni/...but they seem quite immature...i like the mature ones!!