Enjoy.........

[samya]

give it time.... its only been one day!

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ASW Ani sis....

thats a fair say....
Yep so far everything is cool....
she pushed me out of the kitchen yesterday...wudn't let me clean anything.....
End ov day I like to do my own chores...although my bro's r luving it!!
Have a good day at work.....
hp sis n d'bhai r getting on well....
Love Sam xx

[anisa22]

hey sam!

glad to hear everything is going well....

yah, affa and dbai are fine.... havnt seen them in about 2 weeks but they phone every day to annoy us

(darn.... we thought we finally managed to get rid of her but no such luck.)

hee hee



xx

[Bang_Ali]

Originally posted by aga_kha


i think the reason y ppl hate their bhabis is coz its like they dont want their brothers 2 b controlled by his wife.or something like that. they feel like theyre losing their bro. o i dunno.

Nah. Have you considered that sometimes the bhabhis can be twisted b1tches?

Especially the new generation of imported women. Thats why I'd never consider going back to get an import.

Better stick to what you know.

[Bang_Ali]

Originally posted by anisa22
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nah.... i reckon its the mum that always kicks off first, cos she cant stand her son putting his wife before her.

and kids always agree with their mums.... when my mum is angry, i will usually be angry with whoever made her angry if she's really upset, know what i mean?
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You'd be suprised at how often the daughter-in-law starts off first. Its really embarassing, once I went to visit somebody in the middle of some tense times in that house.

The mother-in-law seemed like as if she was afraid of the d-i-l. To tell you the truth even I was abit worried when I saw her big angry eyes.

Another family I knew in Oldham was even worse as the d-i-l used to beat the m-i-l when they were alone together, The m-i-l was quite old and couldn't stick up for herself.

Anyway not just about family life, but in general. Shouldn't you stay neutral in arguments as much as possible? Otherwise everyone gets involved and it unnecesarily causes bad feelings.

The best way of winning an argument is by not starting one. If I feel someone is being unreasonable to another person, no matter who either people are, I'll tell them. I might be very polite and try and be respectful (if they are worthy of respect), but still communicate to them that such behaviour is unacceptable.

You'd be amazed at how it can increase the amount of respect you get from people when they see you being firm but fair to all.

[Bang_Ali]

Originally posted by SNOOP_KUTHA
i aint gna have no bhabi's either

well my older blood cousins bout 2 get married in the near future, i dont think ill hate her infact im predictin she gonna like us all more then him...not in the dirty way...in the friend way because his very weird and were jus gr8


thats happened before with females who's married into our families, they allways like us more then the ppl they married...by us i mean me and my other blood cousins

I know, but you must realise that you are like guests in their houses, while the family they marry into become their own family. And all families have tension between them. There is a sort of novelty factor with you and your cousins which has worn off with the family they marry into.

You probably see them for a day or two at a time max. whereas they see the other people day-in, day-out.