WHO DO YOU LIKE THE LEAST?

[Bang_Ali]

Originally posted by Ms-Bored
i'l call ya bangs!! lol

Ms. Bored
x x x x x

i cant be too honest with saeed, he doesnt know about my ex bf... and i know he wudnt understand... so besides its the past...

i already asked him not to ask me about my ex husband cos i feel uncomy he said ok!

he told me that he never had a gf... and never kissed a gal i think he's still a virgin but to be honest u dont really know wth guy's... that dont bother me... as long we have porno's were can we go wrong hahahahah!!!!

If he's an import thats never been married, then chances are that he IS a virgin. People in BD (esp. village folk) are quite strict when it comes to sexual morality and chastity.

You seem to be very much a coconut and totally out of touch with the way the Bengali people think.

What do you see yourself as when you look into a mirror? (I know you see your refection, don't start taking the p1ss).

Do you see yourself as being a Bengali or someone who has totally rejected everything that is part of Bengali culture (and religion)?

It's just a question for you to think about.

You said on your shaadi.com profile that you have moderate cultural values. But if you don't understand the culture properly, how can you judge yourself to be a moderate? It's another question for you to think about.

What's this obsession with porno's you have? Have you got a private collection or something? You'd best get rid of it before you get married. Another thing about the way Bengali guys (and most others) will think is that your a tart if you keep a collection of porno's.

I don't think he'l be too happy, don't be shocked if he doesn't want to curl up on the sofa with some popcorn and a private viewing (unless he's a dirty minded b@stard like the rest of us ).

[Ms-Bored]

thats sooooooooooooooooooooooo funny!

i have admitted to being a coconut?!

and as for my stash of porno's i dont have any... there embarrassing!! lol

as for my refelction, wen i see myself when im angry i just be abusive and stuff lke to myself... its hard to explain!!

and on a good day i put makeup and think "ur soo unique"

Somtimes i think what a slut/slag i have been!! (dont say told u soo bangs, i can just imagne u wth a smuged face!)!

other than that i cant recall what i thnk about to be
honest!!

Ms. Bored
x x x x x

[SNOOP_KUTHA]

dont watch porno's wiv him lol


his gna be chekin the mans techniques out and how the females lovin it and gonna think "yeh i cud be that guy", then IF he flops its gna shatter his ego...n ur gna have 2 keep reassurin him that it happens to so many guys... joke


si si, its friday, thobha thobha arr kunor dhin khorthaam nai

by the way its naive of us to think these freshies dont watch porno's, i rememba las time i was in bangladesh, at nightime when the bazaars closed, a group of males gather into a shop to watch porno's...APPARENTLY....it must be coz dey neva let me come der at that time...either there watchin dirty movies, or drinkin, or there all abit comsi comsa...u kno wot i mean?

[Bang_Ali]

[quote]Originally posted by SNOOP_KUTHA
dont watch porno's wiv him lol

his gna be chekin the mans techniques out and how the females lovin it and gonna think "yeh i cud be that guy", then IF he flops its gna shatter his ego...n ur gna have 2 keep reassurin him that it happens to so many guys... joke


Hmmmm. Almost sounds like you speak from experience .


by the way its naive of us to think these freshies dont watch porno's, i rememba las time i was in bangladesh, at nightime when the bazaars closed, a group of males gather into a shop to watch porno's...APPARENTLY....it must be coz dey neva let me come der at that time...either there watchin dirty movies, or drinkin, or there all abit comsi comsa...u kno wot i mean?

Yeah I know what you mean. They might be into abit of "comsi comsa". And they probably did watch some porno's and drink- sounds like a night in with the lads .

The point I was trying to get at is that freshies will excuse themselves when it comes to watching pornos, but if it's women watching it they'll think of it differently.

I can almost guarantee that if bored showed her fiance some pornos, he'd think she was a slapper, no doubt.

[Bang_Ali]

Originally posted by Ms-Bored

we just used to not agree on a few things infact a lot of things but still i think there is a little tension but life's too short to have grudges online!!!

Ms. Bored
x x x x x

There's no tension. I'm quite chilled. I'm the sort of person that, if we met face to face could have ago at you and verbally abuse you with a big smile on my face.

But like I said, I don't hate anyone here or hold grudges.

The problem was that back then you seemed to be contradicting yourself. I didn't see it as Ms Bored v. Me.

From the logic in your posts, it seemed that it was more a case or Ms Bored v. Ms Bored.

Remember what I was saying? I still stand by it and will continue to do so. I won't, and neither will anyone else accept that in Islam, sex B4 marriage can be excused.

As a Muslim, you were trying to excuse your past. You were also trying to portray yourself as a religious person too.

My point was that you can't have it both ways (no pun intended ). All you had to say was that you accepted in Islamic law, that sex B4 marriage is HARAM. And that you got off anyway- because you WANTED to.

Maybe you could've said that you'd changed your ways and become religious now, but that you were different back then.

You did not have to try and excuse yourself or make apologies. In fact my problem was when you did try to make excuses.

You were trying to excuse it with loving him.

I wasn't being judgemental and saying that you'd be condemmed to hell or anything. I'm no angel and know I can't really pass judgements. I was saying that in Islam, consensual sex B4 marriage is HARAM. Thats a matter of simple fact.

I wasn't trying to make you live by Islamic rules, but wanted you to fully know what the Islamic rules were. You seemed to be in some sort of denial. You kept trying to shift responsibility for your actions and ignore some basic truths.

Thats all.