virginity

[anisa22]

thats an awful story mahbuba

your ma prolly decided not ot do anything about it cos the guilty boys are your own flesh and blood.... bengalis will do anything to save their family name

stay strong. you seem to have coped with it really well, but make sure it isnt gna be something that ends up eating you up inside.

[SNOOP_KUTHA]

**** happens

but like everyone says, u gta be strong, like i said i got a friend who similar fing happened to when she was 14...she didnt tell no 1 except me, plus her boyfriend, but she jus gets on wiv life and if u dont do nuffin about it wen it happens, it becomes to late and plus these kinda things are taboo to talk about amongst bengali's n asians

same wiv fornication, but parents dont understand the peer pressure put on us to do things like that

[MaKe_iT_LEgAL]

guys like dat should be castrated.

those mutherfukaz shouldnt be allowed to brethe the same air as us.

[aga_kha]

ppl really shud speak out abt things like dis. i know they dnt coz they dont wanna split up the family n stuff so they dnt say nefing, but ppl just gotta remember that they hant dne nuttin rong n its the person hu has dne this 2 ya hu is splitting up the family.

mahbubba, dya still see or speak 2 ur cousins? coz i know id never b able 2 feel comfortable around dem agn after them doing dat.

so much stuff like dis is happening nowadays. u just dont fink its gonna happen 2 u until it does or happens 2 some1 u know. last summer, 1 of ma mates was going hme from her bf's house. it was only abt 6 ish n in da summer so it was broad day lite. she went down dis alleyway n someone just grabbed her. she got away tho. it was all reported 2 da polce n the skool n every1 was told 2 b careful. then the next day it happened 2 anada gal from ma skool (dunno hu the other gal was tho but the skool told us)but she couldnt get away. n this guy still hant been caught. n it just makes u fink, it can happen agn 2 ne1. that alleyway i use everyday! its rite next 2 my skool.

[Amar-Sonar-Bangla]

Originally posted by Mahbuba
who is a virgin?

if this is too personal, forget about it, don't answer.

i know i'm not a virgin because i was forced to have sex instead of wanting it. =0(

You're a very brave person Mahbuba. There are not many people who could endure such a monstrous thing and would fall to pieces.


One thing you must know-you were not at fault in any way. You have nothing to reproach yourself for.

The blame lies solely with those who took advantage of a small, shy and innocent little girl, to sate their own foul desires.

You've forgiven them and I think you are a better person than I. I don't think I would, given what happened to you.

In my opinion, this sort of swine ought to be packed off to a Turkish prison for some 'poking,' castrated and then sent off to a Siberian prison camp.

[Khilari]

Originally posted by Mahbuba
who is a virgin?

if this is too personal, forget about it, don't answer.

i know i'm not a virgin because i was forced to have sex instead of wanting it. =0(

Astagfirullaah

ASB is right - you are very brave sis and its not ur fault!

May Allaah protect you always

[aroma]

mahuba.....

i know the last thing u want is to ppl to feel sorry for u...

i have to say ur are strong..
and i reckon very much u did the right think...
being realistic.. no one would have believed u...
if ur parents didnt then no one else would..
as this happened many years ago....
if that happend to me i wudve done the same think...

cuz the worst thing that couldve happened is ppl knowing about it....
perceiving u differntly and most of all ppl knowing about it and the guys wouldve still walked free...

i dont think i couldve forgived them though.....
rape is bad and child abuse...
thats just unforgivable..