Introduction

[bably]

Hey can you guys all introduce yourselves to me.. i am new here.. and am finding it hard to decide who to talk/ not to talk to.

Bably.

[Selina_Choudhury]

Hi Bably, i am Selina
I am 17 Years old and in London. . .what else?? . . .Mmmm mom & dad are from Sylhet

I have two brothers 26 & 30 . .(i fink)
and i am the youngest

I work in New Bond Street . . in a computer software development company called Keane.

I am not married yet! But will soon probably next year to this guy in Bangladesh. . .i dont mind really. . . i seen loads of unhappy people when they marry british guyz. . .ohh no now this is going to start a big issue . . .watch out for the attack sis . . the boyz are gonna get thier swords out.

Hey sis somefink else you HAVE to remeber to saty cool here . . .dont take things personalyy. . .also play around a bit . . . .it is sooooooo easy to get the boyz wound up it is sooooo funny heee hehehe heee lol they have such short tempers. . well not all of dem some.

Any way sis feel free to open another topic. . .i am sure this one is going to get lots of negative replies )

take care sis
Selina (Mod)

[bably]

Great intro sis.

So, do you know who your going to get married to.. has it been arranged?

As for me I want to graduate (at least) before marriage. I will be garduating next year in Bsc Biochemistry. After that only Allah knows what will happen to me.


Hey, do you realy think you will be unhappy marrying a guy from UK? i have seen it work/ not work both ways.

Bably.

[Selina_Choudhury]

me dunno sis the subject is sooo confusing i choose to ignore it and agree to Bangladesh :. . .i know it is a bit saaaad. . .and i am a kid .

anyway huh

wowowow sis you got brainzz heee hehe lol . . . .good luck wiv yur life. . .me gonnu be a housewife . . not that i really mind as long as i get the tings i want

lol sis i am sounding too kiddy for you sorry

[bably]

Hey no need to feel like. You don't sound like a kid at all. I feel exactly the same... I want to get married (after completing my study).. and become a housewife. But, I want my husband to not take me for granted.. and hence I think completing my study will help (one way of looking at it).

Bably.

[Selina_Choudhury]

Hmm i know what you mean sis. . .hey sis you know some thing i else i worry about. .and i am only telling you cuj i like people who understand everything and look at situations from other points of view.....

anywwayz getting to the point. . .and please dont laugh....well to tell you the truth i am feeling quites shy to say this ok ok ok ok
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.what will my husband work as?? I dont want him to work in a restaurant. . cause they come home soo late
1= i will be worried because it will be night
2= i will hardly get to see him
3= he will smell of onions
4= he will alwayz be tired

sis this sounds like a joke i know but sadly i mean it
Selina




[This message has been edited by Selina Choudhury (edited 07 August 2000).]

[bably]

Don't be shy I know exactly what you. But, don't you think that should you marry someone from Bd he will work in resturant.. I mean what else can they do?

I know that my parents won't marry me to someone working in a resturant. I think you should wait and find someone suitable. Don't think you can't get what you want.. be patient and pray to Allah. My best wishes are with you.

listen to me go.. I am giving you advice.. and yet I have the same worry. I worry about the type of guy i will end up marrying to. i guess this worries always exsist in all asian girls at our age.. don't you?

Bably.