BENGALI GIRLS WITH BLACK MEN

[LONDONNI]

I just dont believe what i see in london, I want to know why bengali girls going out with black men. I mean they are ugly, most of them HIV postive AND MOST IMPORTANT THEY ARE NON MUSLIM. I saw on channel 4 news, 80% HIV postive are black people. I think its parents fault, they are not strict, not teaching their children right stuff and most parents dont care what their children upto. Bengali girls also going out with white men but i see most with black men. I think them girls need help and need islamic education.
Coming to this country, made bengalis rich but it brought many disadvantages. Them girls and boys giving bad reputation to our country. I dont really care but i just feel sad how bengali people becoming in this country. Nur and Abdul what can we do, to help them people go right direction.



[This message has been edited by LONDONNI (edited 13 July 2000).]

[Wais_Islam]

Although i am not Nur and AR, I will attempt to answer your quaction.

First, send all these Bengalis to Africa.
Second, send their parents to Bdesh, and to Africa if necessary. This way we do not get so many Bengali girls going out with blacks!
Third, to kick em out of their home the moment the parents realise their daughter's going out with a ((((((((BLACK MAN)))))))).

Now, you can call me racist. BUT, I would not object to proper Islamic marriage. And that is does NOT mean going out first and loving each other and then getting married in a mosque to a black convert! Good many of them convert but what assurance is there that they have the Islamic values that take time to develop. I have a very close friend who is a good black convert/revert Muslim and I wouldn't mind helping him marry someone if necessary, but to suggest outright extreme freemixing is just not on for any Bengali girl with anyone, including blacks. Many Bengali girls get excited by comments these non-Muslim blacks make on them. They don't realise what they're after but only realise what THEY (the girls) are after, a big.......

Anyway, I don't like whites either when it comes to marriage unislamically. the cultures are so different and it simply distorts the strong social fabric that makes our unique Bangladeshi society.

Having said that, what difference does it make when Bengali Muslims outside my own house are taking drugs and alcohol, clubbing and gambling, and copulating indiscriminately, which may indeed invite HIV?

The problem is one of EDUCATION. However, who do we educate, the parents or the children? The mum says amar furiye forer invarsitith. She needs to know that her potential partner could also be studying there!

[Fox]

And there you have it, I hope your 'quaction' has been answered.

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[handsome]

Its hard to avoid...
There is an acute shortage of educated boys in Sylhet.
'Furi's are turning 'Buri'...getting no 'Damand'.

[Abdur_Rahman]

SalamunAlikum.

Londoni Brother its an interesting question I really want to answer this properly, so i'll write later.
Points made by other brothers are very interesting too!

[Nur]

Salaam,
Good answer Wais - as I am at work at the moment its difficult for me to answer this question - but briefly to a large extent it comes down to parents not giving the proper islamic education at the right age! For example whats the point in a parent letting their daughter go withut the hijab for 18 years and give them freedom to go unsupervised whereever they want and then decide andits time to get them married to a good bengali boy. The same applies to giving unlimited freedom to the boys! If you look at Iranians you will notice that their daughters wear the hijab from the age of 3 or son and so are used to it!

More later

[Wicked786]

When i was working for the Neighbourhood i went out on a call to a hostel. There was a young bengali girl there who was pregnant. She needed help to find housing. She left home as she was only 17 and was expecting a black guys child. But funnily she wanted a house near her parents, who disowned her. As i was from the same culture i explained if she moved to that area she would be victimised. But she was ignorant and didn't want to know, she wanted to hurt her family more. I asked about the baby to be's father. She said he comes and goes but not supporting her financially.

Though i was there helping her get accommodation, i hated her attitude. I thought what a life her baby will get.

Wicked