BENGALI GIRLS WITH BLACK MEN

[Suhanaa]

Originally posted by LONDONNI:
Come on girls say something, this topic about u. How cum suhana didnt say anything, she spends all day here. I think, she has black boyfriend.

dur shoitan khanor....i dont wanna say anything to ur topic

cuz uir a klow lofe racist...perverted PIG

got dat u dumbhead



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[Zahra]

Salaam,

Okay Londonni bhai:

I am 22 and and married to a bengali but that doesn't mean I think there is anything wrong with muslims from other races. I would say if my daughter wanted to marry a white muslim and he had Islamic values say, like Bro. Muhammed; I wouldn't have any objection to it . Muhammed is a convert but he has more Islamic values than some other muslims.


I think that it is important that we don't look at colour here. Muhammed is right in what he says, and also Islam forbids racial discrimination. I think that a muslim, whatever their race should be able to marry another muslim. But saying that, I don't mean these ppl that decide they are going to convert just before they step into the mosque for Nikkah. I mean that they should have real Islamic values.

Nur is right in saying children should be controlled from the start...What is the point in giving your child an order 20 years later?
I have a friend who did whatever she wanted at college...she tells her father she wants to marry this guy and he takes her to Pakistan to marry her off...not letting her back here til she was pregnant...


As for the girl you spoke to on BDCHAT, Wicked Bhai...maybe she just doesnt have any morals...I mean marriage is not just about one thing is it..?

Wassalaam!

[LONDONNI]

Originally posted by Suhanaa:

dur shoitan khanor....i dont wanna say anything to ur topic

cuz uir a klow lofe racist...perverted PIG

got dat u dumbhead

Suhana u said u dont wanna say anything to my topic, why did u make this comment then. Why are u against this topic, so u saying its alright bengalis to go out with non-muslim. How cum i am racist, i am only saying muslims should stick muslims not with non-muslims, u dont agree, i think u need help. I think u have ugly black boyfriend, this is why u disagree with us. Zahra sis, I didnt say bengali girls shouldnt get married or go out if black men is muslim, i said they shouldnt go out with non-muslim, i said about black men coz i see more bengali girls with black than white. If u read ma first post careful, u will see what i meant.

[Wais_Islam]

May I remind you all that this discussion is focussed on Bangladeshi girls only, not Sri Lankans. To this end, I suggest that the low life perverted tamil Tamil Tiger finds a place outside this forum. Thank you Tamil for trying to make friends here on B.com, good luck with finding a friend in Sri Lanka.

[Versace-boy]

Salam all... i havent read all of this tpic, but I felt Zarahs comments to be quite valid.

Firstly, there should be nothing wrong with a Bengali girl being with a Black Man, racism is against the principles of Islam-they way we should lead our lives. If a Bengali girl is with a Black man in marriage whats wrong with it?

I think this topic is referring to Bengali girls having black men as boyfriends, which should be forbidded, just as having a boyfriend of any race.

Perhaps why we should see why Bengali girls
go for black men? I am not saying this is the reason why all do, but more of a suspicion. Sadly, many Bengalis(parents) have somewhat racist views, or at least consider blacks to be the lowest class out of all races, they often see them as criminals.
The Bengali girl going out with black guy, and showing off about it is a way of rebellion.

I think the best way of doing somethin about it, is giving a child good morals and upbringing where they are taught how import it is to lead the life of a good Muslims, and guide the person in this way up to adulthood possible even a little beyond that. I think this has already been mentioned.


If there is a Bengali girl with a black man in marriage, then there should be nothing wrong with that as, as muslims we should not be racist.
However,in my opinion, the only near-valid objection to such a marriage may be seen like this: In Islam, marriage is just not between two people but more a joining of to families. A traditional Bengali family may not be able to get on with a black family (due to their racist views). Obeying your parents, and not upsetting/disobeying them is something very important. In situations like this, perhaps it would be better for a bengali girl not to marry a black man, but understand why this has happened, and at the same time the girl could learn from her forefathers mistakes, and discourage any racist views in the family she has; s that our culture and community can become better Muslims by aceepting and respecting people of all races.

[Nur]

Originally posted by LONDONNI:
Come on girls say something, this topic about u. How cum suhana didnt say anything, she spends all day here. I think, she has black boyfriend.

Salaam,
Brother Londonni yu shouldn't make accusations like this, especially to a a muslim girl! Brother I have talked to you live on a number of ocassions and I know you are a good person at heart so inshaallah you will apologise to Suhanaa for this comment and soon! InshaAllah I will talk to you live inbdchat soon!

[Nur]

Originally posted by Versace-boy:
Salam all... i havent read all of this tpic, but I felt Zarahs comments to be quite valid.

Firstly, there should be nothing wrong with a Bengali girl being with a Black Man, racism is against the principles of Islam-they way we should lead our lives. If a Bengali girl is with a Black man in marriage whats wrong with it?

I think this topic is referring to Bengali girls having black men as boyfriends, which should be forbidded, just as having a boyfriend of any race.

Perhaps why we should see why Bengali girls
go for black men? I am not saying this is the reason why all do, but more of a suspicion. Sadly, many Bengalis(parents) have somewhat racist views, or at least consider blacks to be the lowest class out of all races, they often see them as criminals.
The Bengali girl going out with black guy, and showing off about it is a way of rebellion.

I think the best way of doing somethin about it, is giving a child good morals and upbringing where they are taught how import it is to lead the life of a good Muslims, and guide the person in this way up to adulthood possible even a little beyond that. I think this has already been mentioned.


If there is a Bengali girl with a black man in marriage, then there should be nothing wrong with that as, as muslims we should not be racist.
However,in my opinion, the only near-valid objection to such a marriage may be seen like this: In Islam, marriage is just not between two people but more a joining of to families. A traditional Bengali family may not be able to get on with a black family (due to their racist views). Obeying your parents, and not upsetting/disobeying them is something very important. In situations like this, perhaps it would be better for a bengali girl not to marry a black man, but understand why this has happened, and at the same time the girl could learn from her forefathers mistakes, and discourage any racist views in the family she has; s that our culture and community can become better Muslims by aceepting and respecting people of all races.

Salaam,
I agree with you bro, but you know it can be a bit more complicated. You see I have met many non-muslims who are interested in asian girls generally, and they will go to any lenghts to get them - even convert to Islam, while not actually believing in Islam. And there are stories of this happening and then the guys going off after a while with another girl! If someone truly believes in Islam he will become muslim first and then he will look for a wife - if he finds a muslim girl and then wants to suddenly become muslim then youshould be careful! There is a hadith which says, that to trust ppl at a time when the world is corrupt is foolish and can lead one to the fire! Si as Londonni rightly pointed out it is a problem and one that should be addressed! The only real solution boils down to bringing children up in an islamic way from an early age - trying to preach to them in the late teenage years can be impossible sometimes!

More later, inshaAllah!