BENGALI GIRLS WITH BLACK MEN

[Wicked786]

The craze in Burmingham for asian girls is to have a black guy. Especially the clubbing ones.

Wicked

[Nur]

Originally posted by Wicked786:
When i was working for the Neighbourhood i went out on a call to a hostel. There was a young bengali girl there who was pregnant. She needed help to find housing. She left home as she was only 17 and was expecting a black guys child. But funnily she wanted a house near her parents, who disowned her. As i was from the same culture i explained if she moved to that area she would be victimised. But she was ignorant and didn't want to know, she wanted to hurt her family more. I asked about the baby to be's father. She said he comes and goes but not supporting her financially.

Though i was there helping her get accommodation, i hated her attitude. I thought what a life her baby will get.

Wicked

Salaam,
Its quite a shocking story but I think you are doing the right thing in helping her Bro! Her age iw what really shocks me - how did she get into that situation - part of it is probably due to the amount of freedom she got from her parents! Islam restricts freedom as a parent restricts his/her baby from eating something from the floor! If these restrictions are not adhered to then these kinds of social problems happen!
A more detailed answer later!

[Abdur_Rahman]

Wiked these soties are really shocking but the reality is that they are in the increase and what are our Bnegalis doing, they are busy fighting over the mosques and the community centres, and atacking each others political parties!

This is a serious question affecting the whole community, which needs serious addressing.

more later inshallah!

[muhammad]

Originally posted by LONDONNI:
I just dont believe what i see in london, I want to know why bengali girls going out with black men. I mean they are ugly, most of them HIV postive AND MOST IMPORTANT THEY ARE NON MUSLIM. I saw on channel 4 news, 80% HIV postive are black people. I think its parents fault, they are not strict, not teaching their children right stuff and most parents dont care what their children upto. Bengali girls also going out with white men but i see most with black men. I think them girls need help and need islamic education.
Coming to this country, made bengalis rich but it brought many disadvantages. Them girls and boys giving bad reputation to our country. I dont really care but i just feel sad how bengali people becoming in this country. Nur and Abdul what can we do, to help them people go right direction.

This is a problem, but not an unexpected one - nor is it unique to just Bengali Muslims in this country. You rightly pointed your finger on the problem - a lack of Islamic education.

In this country we are continously bombarded by anti-Islamic values from TV, newspapers, magazines, etc. At present, the media is giving certain groups in society (including black men) a very cool image and this is taking effect. Its this same media that gives women the impression that they have to be ridiculously slim to attract men (I mean as thin as a lamppost - literally!).

A newspaper recently reported that it was becoming increasingly difficult for black women to find a man because more than 50% of black men have a white (or maybe asian) wife or girlfriend (as opposed to only a few black women with white men). This is an ongoing problem with their society here.

However in saying this, I think it is important to distinguish between non-Muslim and Muslim black men with this discussion. When seeking a life time partner for marriage one should prioritise the history and piety of the person above his/her race and culture. Once we start judging people by just their colour we are on a very slippery slope...the one that our Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) fought long and hard against (so that great Muslims such as Bilal, could be free).

[Abdur_Rahman]

Brother Muhammad respect to you for your points, excellent!

[Selina_Choudhury]

sorry ,men but i think Black guyz are ugly

[tamil-tiger]

eerrm...BECAUSE BANGALI MEN HAVE SMALL PENIS!

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