BENGALI GIRLS WITH BLACK MEN

[sharminislam]

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[dilz786]

I don't really see it as a problem, I did at first but no no more...one of my closest friends is about to marry a black guy and he reverted to islam a couple of weeks ago. So Mashallah... the only downside is that the stereotypical society that we live in and the freedom that has been given by parents and families to allow their children to go out clubbing, drink, drugs, sex before marriage. We follow islam but a indian culture and it clashes.. FACT

[MiM-Ha-ZaRa]

Originally Posted by Zahra

Salaam,

Okay Londonni bhai:

I am 22 and and married to a bengali but that doesn't mean I think there is anything wrong with muslims from other races. I would say if my daughter wanted to marry a white muslim and he had Islamic values say, like Bro. Muhammed; I wouldn't have any objection to it . Muhammed is a convert but he has more Islamic values than some other muslims.


I think that it is important that we don't look at colour here. Muhammed is right in what he says, and also Islam forbids racial discrimination. I think that a muslim, whatever their race should be able to marry another muslim. But saying that, I don't mean these ppl that decide they are going to convert just before they step into the mosque for Nikkah. I mean that they should have real Islamic values.

Nur is right in saying children should be controlled from the start...What is the point in giving your child an order 20 years later?
I have a friend who did whatever she wanted at college...she tells her father she wants to marry this guy and he takes her to Pakistan to marry her off...not letting her back here til she was pregnant...


As for the girl you spoke to on BDCHAT, Wicked Bhai...maybe she just doesnt have any morals...I mean marriage is not just about one thing is it..?

Wassalaam!

Dont really know anyone off here. But that is the bestest answer Iv read so far ^

And you cant always blame the parents. Parents do play a huge part in upbringing, but they cant completely control what their daughter or son thinks/does while they are at school, or "work". Kids are really sneaky these days.

I personally being a bengali, think I would stick to marrying a bengali, and would want my kids to do the same.
But that doesnt give me the right to go round like an immature 5 year old calling all black guys "ugly". lol.