Short Fused?

[narissa_G]

Being angry is pretty normal.
To show off anger is a normal reaction.
How do you cope with a short fused friend?
Can they change? Can you change them?
Is it worth a try?

[Nel_Ullah]

I was just wondering why everyone on this website wants to talk about love.. and what is love... Arrgh that pisses me off a bit. Sorry if I sound a bit aggressive but hey! How do I cope with a friend with a short fuse?.... Hmm I don't know. I don't have any friends with a short fuse... Oh but I dohave a brother with one lol! I just throw oranges at him hehehe!.. okay so thats not a very wise thing to do but if I try and help him he gets me in a head lock (Arghhhh!!)
I think it is worth a try to help them coz in the long run it could affect them quite alot. People wouldn't want to try and get to know that person and if they got a good job it could affect that to.
Loads of Luv Nel xx

[narissa_G]

[quote]Originally posted by Nel_Ullah

But it isn't an easy task you know... to approach someone who is, well, like a loose cannon. You've got to have patience and I suppose some knowledge in self defence... who knows you might get blasted yourself. He He He

[Nel_Ullah]

[quote]Originally posted by narissa_G

Originally posted by Nel_Ullah

But it isn't an easy task you know... to approach someone who is, well, like a loose cannon. You've got to have patience and I suppose some knowledge in self defence... who knows you might get blasted yourself. He He He

Thank you for replying. Oh my god. I've replied to some people and I may have seemed quite *****y. Serves me right but hey!.
I was wondering by what u meant when you said the self defence bit?

thank you all the best luv nel xx

[mhnew]

Love is what you sign off with.

Its simplke and is there all over our life.
So many may wish to talk about it.
Problem is some of only make it dirty and cause fitnah.

[narissa_G]

thank you all the best luv nel xx [/b][/quote]

Hi cookie,

All the best luv to you too ...

I was just trying to crack a joke when I mentioned about the self defencing part... but you see, from what I've always heard, a person who can't control their temper are also quite physically expressive when they leash out anger.. ie they could also turn into being violent and abusive. So, you've got to be extra careful whenever you're around them.

Nel, what do you think about abusive boyfriends or husbands? In most cases that I have come accross with, the women would stay loyal to these men even though they are beaten to black & blue... they would even deny and lie about it. Tad intriguing....

[Nel_Ullah]

Hiii , how r u? Thank you for replying to my reply
hehehe, anyways, you asked me about what I thought about men/boyfriends who abuse heir wives/girlfriends. Peronally I think its horrible. I think you're right by saying that they should stay loyal to them coz if they don't then they are bound to geet more beatings I know alot of women/girls who are abused really bad and its so sad to know that they could be so mean. If I was in a situation like that I would dump him away straight away..... uurgh, Never mind..... lets just hope for the best for these poor peoploe hehehe well best be going, thanx for replying byeeeeee luv nel xx