HAVING KIDS

[GODS_KITCHEN]

HI IM NEW HERE.SELINA IS THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS ME.I WOULD LIKE TO SY WHY DO BENGALI PEOPLE HAVE KIDS WITHIN ONE YEAR OF MARRIAGE.I JUST HATE IT.CANT THE WOMEN KEEP THEIR LEGS CLOSED AND MEN KEEP THEIR U NO WHAT AWAYWHY IS THIS ??TELL ME TEL ME.WHEN I GET MARRIED IM GOING TO WAIT FOR 3 YEARS.SOME GIRLS HAVE KIDS WHEN THEY ARE JUST 18 OR 19.WEY TOO YOUNG.THEY ARE NOT EVEN MATURE YET.I WANT SOME ONE TO EXPLAIN .Y

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[Selina_Choudhury]

what??

who the hell are you??

I am sorry but i dont know you!! Mr .. or Mrs??

[GODS_KITCHEN]

SELINA IM EMAILING IN THE NAME OF KING MIZZ I THINK.REMEMBER.I SAID WAIS ISLAM IS FAT.HEHEHE.MY MEAIL AD IS MIZZNO1.NOW DO YOU KNOW AHO IAM ??????

[Shilpa]

Hey thats not true.

Theres no right age for having kids.

My gran was pregnant with my dad at 13!! She managed to do a good job rasing my dad!!

Its all down to personal choice and the maturity of the girls. If you dont think you'd be able to cope with the responsiblity...you shouldnr get pregnant for the sake of it. Its not fair on the child not to have the best possible upbringing simply 'cos his/her mother isnt bothered!!

Id have my moltu's and boltu's, pinky's and rinky's now if i could...unfortunately i want to finist my A levels, Degree, post degree training...settle on my own two feet and then i shall start laying my eggs!!!lol

[Seema]

Bengali people hve kids so early in the marriage because theres pressure frm the family and the guy might be quite old anyway.Oh and bt the way how r the women supposed to keep their legs closed whn they are not alowed to refuse their husbands rite

[GODS_KITCHEN]

SEEMA U MADE ME LAUGH HUNNI.WELL THEY CAN SO NO TO THEIR HUSBANDS AND SAY SHE IS NOT MATURE ENOUGH.MY COUSIN GOT MARRIED AT 18 I THINK AND SHES GOT A BABY NOW.Y DO THEY DO IT.ITS THE PARENTS THEY WANT TO SEE THEIR GRANDCHILDREN BEFORE THEY DIE.SHILPA GOOD ON YOU. SO WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE IDEAL AGE TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE KIDS. ANOTHER THING WHICH PISSES ME OFF IS THE AMOUNT OF KIDS PEOPLE HAVE.APPARANT KIDS.THERE IS 2 FAMILY IN OLDHAM WITH 14 KIDS EACH.CAN YOU BELIVE THAT.I THINK HE NEEDS TO BE CASTRATED THE DIRTY MAN. IMAGINE IF THE WOMEN HAVE NO SAY IN IT.SHE HAD TO GIVE BIRTH 14 TIMES. OHH HOW PAIN FULL.SEEMA WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR HUSBAND WANTED 14 KIDS.WOULD YOU LAY DOWN AND OBLIGE OR WOULD YOU SAY NO.HEHEHE.BYE EVEYONE.THANKS FOR REPLYING

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[Shilpa]

14 kids....geez....the husband may aswell put up a tent at the back of the hospital and stay there...would save him a hell of a lot of travelling expenses.

Good grief...youve really scared me now...imagine that!!14*9= 126!!

She has spent one hundred and twenty six months of her life...hang on letmi calculate thats 10 and a half years of her life being pregnant!!!! Wow what a life!! She gets out of having painfull periods though!!

One way to look at it!!