"Londoni Khoinya" - what did u think of it

[ksolima]

Have any of u guys heard of a bengali drama that has come out recently called "Londoni Khoina" its about a british girl that gets taken over to BD to be married off and the rest of it. Have any of you seen it and what are your views of getting married in BD?
Do you think it is a good or bad thing? let me know what you opinions are on this topic

take care
ksolima

[Aqaiyum]

Hey Ksolima,

you have chosen a nice topic.
Not all parents consult their daughters/sons before marriage, and u know next thing might be your jetting off to BD.

Is the programme in UK? i have not heard or seen it.

So for example, a person is educated here to A levels, degree, should the person get or consider getting married in BD, where maybe the husband/wife to be are not educated or don't even know English (mostly likely). A person educated would want to work in UK thats is 9am to 5pm, and after that if s/he at home also is required to take charge of home coz hubs/wife cant speak English would be a great stress too, well it can be though..eg going to doctors though this is not a big issue! There are loads more stuff to think of.

Then again if you like someone from BD then thats it...what else can you do but get married to them!!

Most all of parents should consider the sons/daughters view before making a decision,
COZ MARRIAGE IS FOR LIFE, NOT A GAME!!!
The divorce rate is increasing in asian marriages whether its parents fault or not.

anyway nice talking to you

May we all have an understanding mind.

Take care and would like to know you better..

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Abs

[JAMMIE_DODGER]

Hiya ksolima i havent sat down & watched it but rest of my family have, but the short clips i have seen i coundnt say? Personally i dont watch stuff like that but heh am not trying 2 say.......ok! I hear its good for the understanding of a londoni girl getting married back home?!
The way i see it,is u marry if your happy coz u marry 4 yourself not for your parents?!
looking foward .................
HAVE A GOOD DAY C YA!

[JAMMIE_DODGER]

Aqaiyum Bad boy selecta wat ya up 2? Studying hard well i dont think so!!
Is the programme in UK? YES & NO?i have not heard or seen it.WELL NOW U HAVE ITS ON VIDEO WANA WATCH IT LET ME KNOW?

laters Q
BIGGY BIGGY BIGGY WAT CAN U C..............

[Aqaiyum]

Here Jammie Phan sometime u hyptonise me with your words!! and i dont like your flashy ways ,anyway who are u?? interested to find out.

Just take care, easy as your a new member well your profile says so.

Waiting in respect!!

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Abs

[Naj]

I've not seen the drama but it would be wicked to watch- where did ya see it? Where can I see it?

[aff]

Ksolima I have'nt seen the drama but I have seen somesort of film and I think it was called somthing like the tilte you mentioned.
Is it the one where she ends up falling for a teacher in the village, but everyones against it????

Anyway, I think its well wronge for parents to plan their childs future without consulting first.
The film i saw sadly reflected reality,
the marriage became some sort of bidding competion, the one who gave the most money (highest bid) to the father, is allowed to marry his daughter....what a joke...like christies in england...

Anyway, my point is money sometimes has a say in the matter not just education, and these days in our country money tends to be the godfather of pulling power...

takecare all.
aff