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[Cookie]

oh okay.......
but i can understand it sirf bol nehi saktha hu mai..arey yaar thora sa sikaw nah...

[Slaya_of_Evil]

Originally posted by Cookie
oh okay.......
but i can understand it sirf bol nehi saktha hu mai..arey yaar thora sa sikaw nah...

sikandian pi.jadu vi jawab denia thanu, punjabi vich hegi eh.esrah tussi sik levo ge.

or r there any particular sentances or words u wanna know?

[Cookie]

well someone said to me menu teri naal muhabbath hegi...
i understand dat jus wnted to know how i could give a good response widout hurtin her...
plus dnt wana give her the rong idea..
i can understand what u r sayin nn i fink u spk it will..
tho bolo na...

[Slaya_of_Evil]

Originally posted by Cookie
well someone said to me menu teri naal muhabbath hegi...
i understand dat jus wnted to know how i could give a good response widout hurtin her...
plus dnt wana give her the rong idea..
i can understand what u r sayin nn i fink u spk it will..
tho bolo na...

say, eho ji gaal ni kendeh.eh teek ni hega.mein teh teri izzat karda vah choti/vadi (whichever applies) pain di taran teh tu vi meri izzat kar prah di tarah.

p.s only say the above if u mean it

and if that fails then try...chad paran, dafa hon ethoo, jaa kaar jaa, kam kar... he he.

[Cookie]

nutter...wen did u get ur teeeeeeeeeeeeeeef bak
acch nah she a gorgeous gurl..jus dat she live miles away n fings n i shud tell her
theri naaal soniyay piyaaar hogeya nisanu theri naal theri ishq day ni soniyay bukhaar hogeyaaa..
but id like to say to her that we aint meant to be...
can u help plz....

[Slaya_of_Evil]

Originally posted by Cookie
nutter...wen did u get ur teeeeeeeeeeeeeeef bak
acch nah she a gorgeous gurl..jus dat she live miles away n fings n i shud tell her
theri naaal soniyay piyaaar hogeya nisanu theri naal theri ishq day ni soniyay bukhaar hogeyaaa..
but id like to say to her that we aint meant to be...
can u help plz....

Ahhhhhhhhh maaaaaaaaaaaan, not this love shove pyar vyar baqwaas.

From what I've been taught u're not supposed to reveal u're love shup feelings to anyone, u're supposed to control the emotion and the 'temptation'.The only person u should tell is someone responsible who can make sure that what ever happens does not ruin anyone in any manner and keeps the izaat intact.

Looks like u've chosen me...so I'm gonna give it my best shot.Bismillah

(Perhaps) what u need to do is speak to this person with a third person present who has to be there to bear witness to u both and ensure that u don't discuss anything outta bounds/intimate (and also so u don't scratch each other's eyes out)

Erm, discuss what u'd both like to gain in ur lives and see if u r both compatible...@ the end, marriage should only take place between 2 ppl who are compatible with each other, even if their differ in personalities/goals or wotever.If u know that the 2 of u won't be happy at the end of it, don't bother whether it's for yourself or for her and if u feel that u can make a good go of it then start dishin' out the wedding inivtes eh.

I do emphasize as a Muslim, don't even start on the lovey dovey terms, stay away from 'I love u' phrases and stuff, (man this is difficult, Allah help me to help this person correctly).

Oh...and DON'T forget the THIRD person to bear withness, make it someone responsible, not someone who will leave u2 alone to talk e.t.c.If u feel that in anyway izaat will be at steak, then leave it 'till a better time.

Perhaps u should do Istakhaarah if u're still unsure, Allah always answers to the true heart,mind and soul.

This is what I would advise my friend's and what I have advised them.

Remember, a wise person once told u
'Emotions don't come from the heart.Blood pumped round your body does.Pure thoughts come not from the mind but from Allah who guides you.Evil thoughts come from Satan.Submission comes from within'

I pray you do the right thing Inshallah.

[samya]

WOW sis u a love doctor?....good advice I must say...

mujhe bhi koi advice dowgi?......