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[Banglaface]

hi guys new match making site opened for bengalis Bangla Face or just google bangla face its Free. Thanks

[Banglaface]

i like bangla face. Its only for bengalis and better than face book clean and islamic

[udeze]

Is it for Bangladesh people living in the UK?

[newbanglamovie]

hello everybody ..i was in london last 2 years . but now i am in dhaka..
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[luvurcreator]

Nice to hear about this. Marriage is a very important phase in our lives and we should take every step to prepare ourselves for this journey. Lets not wait till we are in this relationship and mess up before taking the proper action to maintain this crucial adventure. After all, gettting married is completing half of our deen. Especially for a girl, it can be an express ticket to your jannah or jahannam. Shouldn't we take it seriously then?

The sincere one will give some thoughts and time into the below and find out more details I hope.

lets go to the topic of the man who I want to get married to


Why did I choose him?

How did it come about?

What made me get attracted to him?

What made him get attracted to me?

What do I need from him?

What does he need from me?

How can he support me in my journey?

How can I support him in his journey?

What is his goal in life?

What is my goal in life?

What quality does he have?

What quality do I have?

But please, these questions do not need internet caf answers
Today, a lot of young folks decorate and make themselves up for each other i.e internet caf style.
Meaning:

I am Ms. Perfect. He is Mr. Perfect.
I am Ms. Angel. He is Mr. Angel.
He is so pious and so am I.
He is THE one! And I am THE one!
And its all made up!

In Egypt for example: According to news media statistics, 70% of the young people's marriages are a failure and they divorce between a few months to a few years. Why?
Because the reality of us shows up after marriage!

Now what is the solution?


I believe in Allah SWT. If I am real, Allah will give me some one who is real.
If I am fake, Allah will give me somebody who is also fake.
If I mean it, Allah will give me somebody according to what I mean.
Conclusion:
Be honest, be sincere, and be truthful:
To yourself
To Allah
To others
Beg Allah SWT to show you and give you vision, light, wisdom and ability to see and go after what is good for you. And this can only be done by:
Salat ul Istikhara:
2 rakat with the intention to ask Allah SWT to choose the best for you Note:

You cannot be stuck in your want, desire, fear, anxiety, or liking too much, hating too much, loving too much.anything too much.
We have to go to Allah in a neutral state, believing without a doubt that He is the owner of the unseen and He knows what is good for us.
We can't go to Allah with an agenda. Height, shape, color, money status, nationality, age, weight, degreebecause Allah SWT is the owner of the unseen, owner of the happiness, and success in this life and the hereafter.
And He SWT is the best planner and I cannot find somebody better than Allah to choose for me.
Big surprise!
You can't go through any one of the above without: Real Iman Real Tawakkul (reliance) in Allah. Beg Him to choose what is good for you in this life and the hereafter!

Mashwara (consultation):
Consult those you trust to give you an honest opinion and assessment of this man or this woman. And be ready to accept with an open heart. And this is the job of the wali in Islam.

Intention:
I remind myself and you with what RasulAllah SAW said: Deeds are [a result] only of the intentions [of the actor], and an individual is [rewarded] only according to that which he intends. Therefore, whosoever has emigrated for the sake of Allah and His messenger, then his emigration was for Allah and His messenger. Whosoever emigrated for the sake of worldly gain, or a woman [whom he desires] to marry, then his emigration is for the sake of that which [moved him] to emigrate."
I will summarize the whole talk:
Purify your niyyah (intention) and beg Allah to give you sincerity.
If you can manage that,
- Allah will give you light, wisdom, vision,
- He will guide you to what is best for you in this life and the hereafter
- He will allow you to love and be content with what Allah chooses for you.


And all what I said starts with a PURE HEART!

Whatever is for Allah, Allah accepts and joins it; and whatever is not for Allah, Allah rejects it and it breaks apart and discontinues.

My dear brothers and sisters in Islam, Be for Allah and Allah will be for you!

May Allah SWT give us the tawfiq to be for Him,
Guide us, and give us light, vision, wisdom, and ability to follow what pleases Him (SWT).



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