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Originally Posted by vivian
Hi.guys.I am in love with a bangli guy. But I am not from bangli and am not a muslim. we meet in a EU country. We were friends then we get closer and closer. Now we are in a relationship and live together. He is from syhlet. we have been together nearly 5 months now. I am serious about the relationship. But he doesn't want his family know me. he said in bangli there is no girlfriend only wife. I am confused now. I do not know if we have a future or not. I do not want to waste my time. I ask him if he will leave me and go back to bangli and get married with someother girl or if u think we can not have future, please let me know. he said he like me and he will not leave me. but I do not know what is the culture like in bangli. What should I do. He treat me v good. He take v good care of me. He said he is from a good family and he can not married to someone lower class in bngli. If he will get married in bangli, he will get a good family and prety girl. I really do not know the culture and do not know what to do. Could any body give me some advise??
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dos,nt seem to be any future there for you vivian , to much tradition there for him to overcome , i feel that he will make the break when hes ready ....sorry !